brainwashed

mother said somebody called to accuse her of bad-mouthing that person. she heard it from the daughter of this old lady who mother has been helping out.
that person said some not so good things, which i won't say here (i won't stoop as low), to mother.
mother has been helping out that old lady out of her compassion and without anything expected in return. everytime mother comes back from that old lady's house, there will be a bag of dishes prepared by that old lady.
what i'm very pissed now is the fact that the person who called mother started accusing mother of all the things that has been relayed to her by the daughter without any sort of investigation. if you think my mother has been saying things that are not true about you, must you start shooting off accusations without any questions asked?
must my mother be wrong just because you are hearing these from somebody who is related to you?
do you really think my mother has nothing better to do than gossiping about other people?
one thing i have to say, i'm not going to turn up for the grandson's cukur rambut. i won't want to have anything to do with anyone who doesn't trust my mother.
i don't mind not having any relatives, but my mother is everything to me.